[M]y masculinity is real, no matter how invisible to people unaccustomed to acknowledging masculinity in people with vaginas, especially those who are not polarized in their maleness. Beneath that, however, is a person who seeks and craves and feels within themself a blending of masculine and feminine energies, if you will, or traits, or values, such that they meld into a new single whole, that is both and neither and something else all at once.

My friend Educand is sorting out some major life questions. The above is just a small excerpt from the most recent post in a series about the author's evolving gender identity which is so exquisitely written and thoughtfully rendered that you really must stop by and read it all.